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Dads Teaching While They Play
Thursday, 25 February 2010 09:44
Written by Joeprah
(2 votes, average 5.00 out of 5)
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My dad worked a lot of swing shift when I was growing up. What did that mean for us as a family? There were times when we had to be really quiet during the day so he could get his sleep. There were times when he was grouchy because of the toll the hours took on his system.

Those details were just minor players in the bigger picture of what swing shift meant. Swing shift meant that my dad was home during the prime playtime hours of the day.

I remember my dad teaching my brother and I how to play Wiffleball in the cul-de-sac where we grew up. My dad was a teacher and mediator for all the neighborhood kids. In that paved field of dreams, my dad taught us more than how to play a game; he taught us how to get excited about life in general. My dad would jump up and down when anyone got a hit. He would razz us when we struck out, and he was always patient enough to give the younger kids four, five, and even six strikes.

Manhole covers and mailboxes served as bases. The curb at the far end of the court was the fence and an automatic homerun. We were using our imaginations to create our own make-believe stadium, and it was all because of my dad.

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The NDG Round Table Discussion PART 1
Wednesday, 17 February 2010 00:00
Written by Reservoir Dad
(2 votes, average 4.50 out of 5)

IMG_0266This is the first in, what could become, a series of round-table discussions with the Northern Dads Group, Melbourne, Australia. We’ll pick a topic a month and fight through the cacophony of kids noises, food spillages, nappy nightmares, two years old tantrums, and the like, to record our thoughts and opinions on my trusty Iriver Dictaphone.

For our first go at it, I decided to ask the Dads why they think the MentallySexy concept is striking such a chord with people in Australia.

Dan: Well, I’ve been a Stay-at-home-Dad for a while, and after six or seven years   of hearing Mums conversations… most of their complaints about their husbands are along the lines of ‘he doesn’t help with the kids’, or ‘he doesn’t help with the housework’, or ‘I send him out to do the shopping and he comes back with the wrong things and he’s forgotten half of the stuff.’ That’s what women are concerned about, in a marriage, rather than what his abs are doing,   or whether his hair is flowing or not… although I guess that helps haha.

Jack: My feeling is that if a woman found you attractive to have a child with you in the first place, she probably still finds you attractive…

Dan: … must be something there…

Jack: …as long as she’s got some mental space to be able to do it. And the issue is that they’re often feeling harried, or that they’re feeling a bit of amartyr to the cause, sometimes, and that’s not sexy.

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