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FF Season II Week 3
Thursday, 11 March 2010 16:32
Written by peteej
(2 votes, average 5.00 out of 5)

So here I sit on a Thursday night, wondering how in the heck a post is supposed to be composed and how I've done it in the past. Unfortunately, this whole blogging thing has sort of taken a back seat in recent months for me. I've been following my dreams or something.

Call it a search for my inner artist. A yearning to embrace my suit-clad business man persona. A desire for something different, change I could believe in.

It all started a couple weeks ago with my mother-in-law taking a nasty fall and smacking her head on the concrete. It was a second bad fall in about a year, so my wife and I decided to take some of the household burden from her. I say "take it from her" because she pretty much does everything on her own accord. In her mind, to sit still is to ask death to come quickly. She's right.

In order to lighten her load, I had to cut my work hours back to 30 hours a week. I know, bummer. All I can say is that I almost wish she fell sooner, but of course I'd rather she didn't fall at all. It's been a welcome break, even though the time at work has been replaced by work at home. I've been able to help my wife out at our business (an art gallery - shameless plug: feel free to become a fan on Facebook) and actually have been painting some myself. After two weeks of this schedule, I don't want to go back to full-time. Besides, I finally might be in a groove to try and figure out this blog thing again. I know Joe loves staying up all night and running the show by himself, but I can't let him have all the fun.

Oh yeah, my mother-in-law is doing fine. She didn't get anything except a big bruise and a much needed vacation. Hard heads for the win. I told my wife that it runs in her family. She didn't see the humor. Anyway...

While I continue to work out my life, I'll leave you with the Fatherhood Friday rules of engagement. Follow your dreams. Listen to your heart. Sign up for fantasy baseball so my team can take your team to the woodshed.

Fatherhood Friday (FF) Rules of Engagement

Make sure that you link to Dad Blogs in your FF posts, also--when you post your link here at DB, make sure your link points to your Fatherhood Friday post--not your blog's homepage. Make it easy for people to find your Fatherhood Friday contribution. Tweet #FatherhoodFriday as often as you can and visit & comment other FF posts with vim and vigor.

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What people have to say (23)Add Comment
SuperMegaDad
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written by SuperMegaDad, March 11, 2010
Woohoo! First one!

This week is the final week in our diabetes saga. We're finally home and living full time with diabetes.
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written by twistedxtian, March 11, 2010
My almost-5 month old son had his first cold this past week, and as a first time dad it was hard to watch him be sick and not really understand what was going on. Fatherhood Friday is a good excuse to write about the things I'm learning as a new dad. smilies/smiley.gif
Busy-Dad-E
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written by Busy-Dad-E, March 11, 2010
Happy Fatherhood Friday! Who needs a routine, anyway, over at http://busy-dad-e.blogspot.com.
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written by Chris Singer (tessasdad), March 12, 2010
Happy Fatherhood Friday! I'm looking forward to kicking back a little bit and reading some good dad blogs.

I'm reflecting more and more on fatherhood and my daughter as we approach her first birthday:

http://sahdinlansing.com/fatherhoodfriday-closing-in-on-tessas-birthday-part-1/
Jesus has 2 Daddies
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written by Jesus has 2 Daddies, March 12, 2010
It's the final leg of my spring break,so I have been busy posting.
Get it now, as the end of the semester is always crazy busy for me.
Thanks to all the bloggers who have posted, it's made for some great reading this morning.
Tom
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written by James (doodadblog), March 12, 2010
Hey dad peeps, my post is a bit different this week. Trying to help someone's contest video entry go viral so that he can win $250,000 and donate it to cancer and kids' charities. Check it out. All you have to do is watch it.
Bolton
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written by Bolton, March 12, 2010
Good FF my friends. Trying to stop being fat over at Juggling Eric.
Daddy Files
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written by Daddy Files, March 12, 2010
Sometimes I take my son to the bar with me. Big whoop, wanna fight about it?
CK Lunchbox
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written by CK Lunchbox, March 12, 2010
"SAHD Men Are Not Sad Men" is in response to a Working Mother's shabby portrayal of dads who were laid off and now stay at home.

Happy Friday to everyone. Gonna make the rounds today.
howefitz
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written by howefitz, March 12, 2010
Very exciting news in the Howe Home today. You know you want to click that link! smilies/wink.gif

Pete, I fanned your gallery. My two cents is it sounds like that's where you belong. I'm jealous!
BellaDaddy
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written by BellaDaddy, March 12, 2010
Sometimes, eh?...http://belladaddy.blogspot.com/2010/03/no-really.html
johncaveosborne
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written by johncaveosborne, March 12, 2010
smart husbands cover up their mistakes. stupid ones turn them into 60-second video clips. with narration. me? i'm stupid. (and in Lovie's doghouse).
pschwa
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written by pschwa, March 12, 2010
Stop sanitizing your kids!
Homemaker Man
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written by Homemaker Man, March 12, 2010
I used worry a lot about raising my kids when they become teenagers. I think I may have found the solution. Happy FF, dads!
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written by twistedxtian, March 12, 2010
@Daddy Files, how did you get away with that? They kicked me out of the bar side of Boston Pizza when I went in with my 2 month old for a work lunch. And he was sleeping in his car seat... You must tell me your secrets. smilies/cool.gif
Daddy Files
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written by Daddy Files, March 12, 2010
@twistedxtian They kicked you out?? That's messed up. I would've crafted a very angry letter.
newyorkdad
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written by newyorkdad, March 12, 2010
Thanks for those who have already taken a gander. My first true parenting post so I thought I should share on Fatherhood Friday smilies/smiley.gif

Also should use this occasion to thank all of the dads and moms that have made entering "blogland" a real pleasure. I am slowly but surely making the rounds and catching up on what a lot of you have written. You are great bunch of parents and blogmates!
edathomedad
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written by edathomedad, March 12, 2010
Best Wishes and Happy FF to all. New post Finding your Manhood through Fatherhood.
http://edathomedad.blogspot.com/2010/03/finding-your-manhood-through-fatherhood.html
newyorkdad
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written by newyorkdad, March 12, 2010
Of course I read the instructions... but did I follow them? Noooooo... I put the homepage link on the list instead of the FF post link... sorry about that smilies/sad.gif
Reservoir Dad
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written by Reservoir Dad, March 12, 2010
Hey Petej,

Glad your mother-in-law is okay. And hope you get some time to get writing again.
bwakeling
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written by bwakeling, March 12, 2010
Fatherhood Friday - the reason Fridays were invented!
SurprisedMom
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written by SurprisedMom, March 12, 2010
Well, at least it's still Friday . . . smilies/smiley.gif

Pete, I'm glad you're mother-in-law is doing well.
CK Lunchbox
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written by CK Lunchbox, March 19, 2010
Okay, so I sort of ran two. A guest post by my wife about her nutty friend and then a guest post of my own on Superman & Batman for a comic book give away.

Looking forward to making the rounds guys. Happy Friday to you all.

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